I want your sex
When I was a teenager, we used to hear the urban myth of a married couple putting pennies in a jar for each time they had sex. Thereafter, in the years following, the couple should withdraw a penny for the same concept. The idea being the jar would never empty. I guess that is the myth part. Actually, I am relieved it can still be great after ten years and three kids. You never know how time, marriage, kids and health can impact your personal recreation.
However, there have been a few books lately about having sex for 100 days or a year straight (what can I say, I fold laundry while watching tv). Honey, I am not on that boat. I don't see myself enjoying that kind of a commitment. For me, the next morning is about smiling to myself, "Yeah, I got some." It makes my whole day great and I think of my husband more that day. I like the spontaneous nature of the whole thing; little else in my life feels off the cuff. It don't eat ice cream every day either. Other days, I am just in love with sleep. I can be so over the top bitter, that I will fight to the death for alone time and sleep. I know my husband would be up for the "challenge". But, I seriously wonder if he would cry uncle after 100 days. Or, are men and women really wired differently?
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-Reni