It seems I don't grow much wiser with age. I used to hope for it. Now, I am amused at the slowness of my human learning. I just enjoyed the delights of a lovely BBC miniseries-- North & South. It has all of the charm we ladies love: complicated love, men loving woman who refuse them, passionate declarations, costumes, compelling musical scores and of course... kissing while holding the woman's face. Yes, I rewatched some scenes on you tube. I found it very romantic. I don't know what it is about wide skirts and accents that gets me every time. But, I also paused to think on my own relationship. I am swooning over these scenes and maybe neglecting my own personal ones. I have a sweet, dedicated husband who I can kiss all the time. He has a deep, romantic baritone voice, plays the guitar, has a deep laugh, is kind, thoughtful, intelligent and hard working. Yet, I have probably seen the kissing scene from this BBC actor a few extra-times. What is it about wom